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Do you remember a past life?

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Have you lived before?

Would you like to be reincarnated?

We cannot be 100% sure that reincarnation exists. It is in some ways comforting to think that after you die, you might come back and get to do some things better than you did before. You might also get the feeling that you really don’t want to do it all again! In any case, you do not get to do the same things exactly as presumably time has moved on.

Reincarnation and Religion

Reincarnation is accepted as part of many Indian and Lebanese religions, including parts of Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism. It is not necessary to be part of these religions to believe in reincarnation. In some belief systems you will have a rebirth which could be into a different realm. There are 3 good realms, god, demigod and human and three evil realms animals, ghosts and hellish. Your acts in this life will determine your rebirth.

Much seems to depend on Karma and reward with a better life for good deeds and punishment for ignorance and selfishness. When a soul has reached the highest evolved level, then it will no longer need to reincarnate but will focus on helping other souls to evolve. This could be in the form of a spirit guide.

How long does it take to reincarnate?

In many Buddhist traditions it is believed that souls reincarnate within 49 days of death. Whereas others will say that it can take years or hundreds of years before a soul returns. There is a theory that due to free will, the soul will decide which new body to occupy.

After death, it may take time to digest the lessons from this life or there may be a need to go back quickly to make amends or to help someone.

Spirit Contact and Reincarnation

This is a puzzle without an easy answer. If we are able to talk to people who are on the other side, can we still talk to them if they have been reincarnated as someone else? Perhaps we can only contact them if they have not yet been reincarnated or perhaps it is possible to get in touch with reincarnated souls who are now living a new life?

In which case someone could be trying to contact you. Think about this, sometimes when you dream, you may be aware of an alternative life. Do you visit familiar places in dreams that you have never visited? Do you have friends in your dreams who you do not know in this life? They could be symbols or in fact people and places from a past life.

If reincarnation is real, then we have all lived before and perhaps we have family members who are trying to get in touch with us. Is it possible that we can have contact with people from our past lives in our dreams?

Memories of Past Lives

The most prominent research on this is being completed at the University of Virginia. At the department of perceptual studies there have been 50 years of research on reincarnation. Many interviews have been conducted with young children and their families who have memories of a past life.

Many of the children are aged between 2 and 7 years old. They will often be playing and see something that reminds them of a past life. The child will talk about where they lived previously, relationships and often how they died. Most of these children had died suddenly or violently in a past life. The child will often have a birthmark at the site of a past life trauma. These children will often recall their names and family relationships which has made it easier to check the truth of these stories. Many children come back to live in the same geographical area usually within one to two years of their previous death.

This is the most compelling evidence of reincarnation. Some scientists have tried to explain this away as false memories, coaching from parents and vivid imaginations. However when times and dates and names are involved this seems unlikely.

Do you have memories of a past life?

Many people will have a past life recollection, it might be of dying or a memory triggered by an object. Museums are great places to trigger past life memories. Did you experience death? It may have been a bit like Alice in Wonderland falling down the rabbit hole. Perhaps you remember falling? Did you die in a fire or a did you drown? Sometimes the most traumatic previous life experiences will be recalled. Do you think that you were executed?

When you visit old buildings, do you remember being there before? Perhaps you were in a similar space? Does a walk in the woods trigger a previous life experience? Give yourself some time and space and write down what you remember. You may surprise yourself!

Past Life Regression

It is possible to have a past life regression under hypnosis or meditation. There are many interesting documented cases of this and of course much scepticism. Hypnosis can unlock parts of the unconscious mind and may enable healing of past hurts.

Some years ago, I took part in a past life regression hypnosis. I was taken back through my childhood, through the womb and to a past life as a servant in a large country house. I was a wife to a coal miner and had a daughter that died. It was an interesting experience and I am open minded about the truth of it.

The most remarkable part was being in the womb, it was so cramped and I really felt small. The emotions were real too, I had a terrible feeling when my husband was injured and my daughter died. It was very real, the feeling was of powerlessness. The lesson I learned was that I cannot control death and tragedy as much as I want to protect my family.

Criticism of Past Life Regression

Much criticism is made of past life regression because it is said that people get things wrong when they recount their clothes, the voices do not change to the correct speech of the time or their are historical inaccuracies. I am sure that these things are true but not a reason to discount past life regression.

When under hypnosis or in a trance we are still aware of who we are, often our thinking minds interpret what we are seeing so we do not always report exactly what is being experienced without adding a current life filter. In my past life regression, I felt that I was part of a Jane Austen novel because that was the correct period, so it would be possible for this to interfere with my recollection of what happened under hypnosis.

Your Life’s Purpose

This may seem a strange place to write about this but if you believe in reincarnation then you came back here with a mission. What is your mission? Do you want to help people? Are you a healer or a teacher? Do you want to make the world more beautiful with art or music? Are you called to help the poor or to be an advocate for others?

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How do you know if you are surrounded by spirits?

 

people standing in the forest during night time

13 things that may convince you…

What is a spirit?

When we refer to a spirit we are talking about a thinking non material entity. We are made up of a physical body and a spiritual body. There are many theories about where the spirit resides in the body. Is it in every particle? If so what would happen if you lost a part of your body? Make up your own mind where your spirit is. It seems likely that it is in the brain or the head or perhaps it is in your aura?

The spirit world

Many believe that the spirit world exists along with our own, Emanuel Swedenborg a 17th century theologian wrote extensively about this, you can read more about this here. He writes about a natural world and a spiritual world. When we die we enter the spiritual world where you learn more lessons and become our true selves. We may become better people and graduate to heaven or become more selfish and cruel and graduate to hell. There are many levels and we reach the level where people are like us. Our families greet us when we die.

Each religion has a slightly different variation of what happens when we die and whether we come back. Many religions base their ideas on the evolution of the soul. That we are all here to learn a lesson, perhaps we came back to experience a sorrow from something that we had inflicted on another in their past life. You can read about The Spiritual Laws here.

Are there spirits around you now?

There seems to be two theories about where the spirits reside, they are either right here with us or we have to travel into their world to be with them. Perhaps there is an exchange, sometimes they visit our world and sometimes we visit theirs.

Shamanic healers will go on a journey to a different dimension to commune with spirits. Mediums will meditate and cross over to another realm. It becomes easier to communicate with spirits with practice but it is difficult to say whether it is through increased awareness, ESP or actually a visit to the other side.

What evidence do you have for the existence of spirits?

1. Think about your own life, have you ever been aware of a spirit around you?

It may be a feeling of love or someone who is there to help you or it may be something evil which makes you want to run away.

2. Did you feel a presence in a room, perhaps a feeling as if you are being watched?

This is the eerie feeling, you are not quite comfortable. It is as if the spirit is waiting for some action from you. Perhaps acknowledging the spirit would be good?

3. Did you experience cold spots, or a time when the room suddenly went cold for no reason?

This is quite creepy, when a particular area is cold. You get a foreboding feeling. Some unexplained presence is around.

4. Have you heard unexplained noises in your home?

Some houses are just really noisy, there are unexplained creeks, floorboards, the sounds of people moving around who are not there. Creaking doors, opening or closing, someone wants to be noticed?

5. Do pictures ever fall off the wall for no reason?

You might wonder if there is a message here, whose picture fell down? It might also be the easiest thing for a spirit to move as it seems that they have less power over physical items than a living person.

6. Have you ever experienced a bed shaking event, where your bed shook violently all on its own?

This is unusual but having experienced it myself, it is very real and scary.

7. Have you seen shadow people or been aware of movement out of the corner of your eye?

This seems quite common and most of us try to find a logical explanation for it.

8. Do you have pets who have watched an unseen person, perhaps barking or growling at the invisible?

This too is quite common, it’s easier to think that your dog is mad than to believe that a spirit dropped by your house to say hi.

9. Do your children tell you about people who visit them at night?

Children have great imaginations and it is easier to blow this one off than to investigate it. However children are more open minded than adults and they have not been conditioned to ignore spiritual phenomena. If the entities are friendly it is possibly a relative or helper on a visit.

10. Do you have vivid dreams where a deceased person talks to you or warns you about something?

Sometimes we are hard to communicate with, especially if we have been programmed not to believe in the spirit world. The best way to get a message across will therefore be in a dream where the mind is more open.

11. Have you been helped by an unseen person when you were in danger?

There are so many people who recount being in mortal danger or having trouble with a sick child when a spirit has intervened and made everything better.

12. Have you had a near death experience?

Most near death experiences seem to be similar, where the person is out of their body in spirit form. They meet dead relatives or angels who are waiting for them. They have to decide whether to follow a beautiful light or go back to their bodies. These experiences seem credible because they are so widely experienced. Why would so many people have the same hallucination at the time of death?

13. Have you experienced astral travel or an out of body experience?

Astral travel is where your spirit leaves your body and goes to wherever your mind takes it. The spirit is still attached to the body by a limitless silver thread which enables you to return to your body when you want to. During astral travel you meet spirits and spirit guides and work on any issues.You may go anywhere in the universe.

Do you believe that you have encountered a spirit?

Let me know if you have experienced any of the things above. What happened to you? You can message me here

If you are interested in contacting someone in spirit let me know.

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What happens to your soul when you die?

 

green mountain

6 signs that you may have lived before….

What do we mean by soul?

Your soul is your essence, your personality, your energy. It is your non-physical being, it is attached to your body. Soul is also known as your psyche, your anima. Soul is consciousness, the thing that makes you alive. It is thinking and ideas and it may be immortal.

Animals and plants may also have souls. many spiritualists are able to connect with animal spirits. With growing awareness you may also be able to connect with tree spirits too.

In some belief systems the soul inhabits the body. The body is an adornment and an instrument for the soul to perform earthly duties. Each life is a test and a challenge between survival needs and spiritual growth. Your soul will have a mission.

Philosophy and the Soul

There are many theories about the existence and the purpose of the soul. There may be dualism, where each body has 2 souls that compete. One soul is the part that deals with day to day life and the other is the wandering soul that leaves your body and visits the spirit world. This may happen during sleep, dreams, meditation and trance. The 2 souls may compete, the devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other. It may be the competition between a materialistic and a spiritual life.

Aristotle believed that each human body had 3 souls, that inhabited different parts of the body. Humans were the only ones that had a soul in the head, which is the intellect. It was thought that the intellect survives death but not the emotional soul.

There is no scientific proof that the soul survives death

The scientists cannot find proof that the soul survives death. However that does not mean that it doesn’t happen. It is just one of those things that you just know. You do not need external proof because the proof is within in your own head and through your own experiences.

6 Signs that you may have lived before

1. Memories

These are the things that you think you remember about your previous life. These could have come to you when you were daydreaming or just be knowledge that you have always had since you were a child. You may have visited a hypnotist and had a past life regression that stirred some memories in you. These things are valid if you feel that they are.

2. Dream Memories

Have you ever had a dream where you have memories in the dream? You are somewhere that you do not recognise in this life but you do remember being there before and what happened. You may have friends and family in your dream that you do not know from this life. You may have skills in your dream that you do not have in this life. It is possible that you are visiting a past life experience.

3. People that you feel you know

Have you ever met someone that you feel that you already know? It is possible that it is someone who you knew in a previous life. They and you may now be in a new incarnation. These are mostly positive experiences although occasionally you may get a warning from nowhere to avoid a certain person.

4. Places that you recognise

You may visit somewhere new and feel as if you have been there before. You know all about the area, where everything is, it is so familiar and yet impossible for you to have been there previously.

5. Historical Knowledge

You may find a period in history that you recognise without learning about it. You do a little reading and you recognise the characters and have information that is not written in the books. You may read about a historical event but you actually have a first hand account of what occurred.

6. Unexplained Knowledge

This could be how to operate machinery that you have never seen before, a musical or artistic talent when you have had no lessons. There are multiple unexplained skills that you may have retained from a previous existence.

man standing on a rock near snow covered land

Beyond

The space in my mind

When all is relaxed

Feeling and knowing

The silence.

But it’s more

The endless journey

in this world and beyond

To see the universe as it grows

Going to impossible places

And knowing extraordinary power,

To be, To see,

To connect,

To remember and feel in my heart

My souls longing

My own belonging,

To this place.

Always beyond what you can imagine.

What does this mean?

You and made up of a body and at least one soul. You are already aware that your soul survives death. You have many memories and knowledge that you innately understand this without the need for scientific proof. This knowledge and understanding comforts you and gives you hope for the future.

I would like to hear your positive thoughts and experiences which convinced you that your soul survives death. You can reach me here.

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Where do you go when you die?

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I suspect that none of us really know for sure…read on for some ideas.

What if we don’t die?

Many scientists and doctors will say that once a body is dead, that is it. There are many tales of near death experiences, children remembering previous lives, and spiritualists who are in touch with the other side. With an open minded approach there is a great deal of evidence to suggest that consciousness survives.

Why is it important?

A belief in an afterlife and the evolution of the soul will affect how you live your life. If there is hope of something further, a purpose to your life’s journey then you will make different decisions based on this. Perhaps you believe in reincarnation, perhaps you will be reunited with friends and family who have passed, perhaps you will be punished for your misdeeds?

Do you have a soul?

Having a soul is intrinsic to a belief in life after death. It is the essence of you that is not part of your physical body. It is your spirit. Have you ever had an out of body experience? If so, this concept becomes a lot easier to understand.

Listen to your inner self

I am not referring to self talk here, which is your inner dialogue, you inner self is your instinct. Do you have a feeling about something, an intuition? Can you hear an inner voice telling you what to do? Sometimes, it will be a warning and sometimes you will have information about someone or something that just comes to you. Pay attention and you will benefit from great insight into situations.

Are we surrounded by spirits?

Probably, there may be family members, spirit guides and guardian angels according to your beliefs. We all label them differently – there are many who are there to help us. You may become aware of someone who is trying to reach you, you may feel a presence or see something out of the corner of your eye. Everyone perceives these things differently.

Do ghosts exist?

Most likely, there is plenty of evidence, sounds, visions, feelings, cold spots and now there are more photos and videos to document this. We can be guided by what is documented and keep an open mind about what is real. Some ghosts seem to exist in their time a sort of echo from the past, whilst others are able to interact with us.

Is it possible to communicate with spirits?

It is definitely possible, there are many professional mediums and regular people who are consistently able to tune in to people on the other side. Communicating with spirits is like learning to ride a bike, anyone can learn. There are techniques to tuning in, ways of protecting yourself and ways of understanding and delivering a message.

What happens when we are near to death?

Many people who are sick drift between worlds. Sometimes they are here and sometimes they are somewhere else. They see deceased family members around them, have conversations with them. They may appear to be talking nonsense or they may be channeling thoughts from someone on the other side. This can go on for a while, the door to death is not always open so many stay on the threshold for a long period, they are able to see the other side but not enter it.

Are we constrained by the physical body?

It seems as though in daily life when we are doing our jobs and performing our regular duties that the physical body constrains us. However, if we are able to meditate, dream or astral travel we are able to go anywhere and see anything. Our minds and spirits are so strong that we can visit other planets, we can see the whole universe, we can fly and we can meet others in different dimensions.

When I die will I come back as someone else?

This is one of the most difficult questions to answer. There are many instances of children coming back and remembering a past life. How do you know if you will come back? There is a sense in the universe that we are all here to learn a lesson. Hopefully with each existence we move up the scale to become a more enlightened being. An earthly existence is a classroom to graduate onto a higher plain.

Why does this matter?

If you were to believe that everything that you do matters, that everything that you think is a creation, then you are in control of your destiny. If you want to be strong, you will think strong thoughts. All your good deeds will bring you closer to the light. The light has the power of happiness, you can flirt with darkness but ultimately your power lies in the light.

Why do some people die young?

Making sense of a young death is difficult. You wonder what lessons a young person had to learn whilst they were on the planet. Did they have time to learn them? It’s difficult to be certain, although it can be said that the life of a child teaches many lessons to those that love them. It is a brief earthly experience followed by an early return to the spirit world.

What are the spirits doing all day?

If time is a man made concept then there is just existence in another plane. There is no need for food or rest, or work or play. There is room for love, for family, for friends, to watch and to help. What else do they do? This is really hard to know but it seems that every soul needs to evolve and learn some lessons or make amends. Can’t really be sure of this but there seems to be a hierarchy of spirits.

Spirit Guides

We may be able to get in touch with our spirit guides. These are spirits who are assigned to us to help us to live our best lives. We may have several spirit guides and these can change at different phases of life when guidance is needed with different things. There are many people who see Native American guides but there are many types of guides. Guides are usually someone from outside of our families who are on a much higher plane.

It is possible to meet your spirit guides through silence and stillness and meditation. These guides are there to help and advise.

What does this mean?

There is no death, there is another dimension for our consciousness. Everything we say and do has consequences and each life has a mission and a lesson to learn. We should make the most of our time on earth and be guided by our intuition to create things and to be the person that we were designed to be.

We should live harmoniously in the hope of further enlightenment so that our souls can progress to the next level. Keep an open mind and be aware of intent when dealing with other souls. Please reach out to me for life coaching and tarot readings. Etsy shop.

I would like to hear your positive thoughts and experiences about life after death. You can reach me here.

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The Spiritual Life of Trees -Birc


Use the Law of Correspondence to Make your Life Better

tree with reflection on body of water

Your external life is a mirror of your thoughts.

What is the law of correspondence?

Whatever you think about will manifest if you give it enough energy. Listen to your thoughts and your words as you will create a reality based on these thoughts. Be conscious of what you say, take time to reflect on who you are and who you would like to be.

Listen to your self talk and create a new better self through meditation and contemplation of your path. Self belief is very important.

External Factors

We can only control ourselves. Lots of things happen that are out of our control, this could be the actions of others, politics, the law, climate change or economic change. The thing we can change is how we react, we can choose to be angry, disappointed or upset but then we have to go into healing mode.

We need to give positive energy to our challenges and be solution oriented. If you are surrounded by low frequencies, raise your own frequencies to overcome this.

Be Like a Tree

Trees use their senses to see the amount of light, feel the temperature and use their hormones to shut down growth of tree limbs in winter. You can read more about how trees react to the climate around them here. The tree rings inside a tree show how the tree reacts to adverse conditions by growing less and preserving energy. As humans we need to be the same, take actions to protect ourselves in adverse times. Be strong in outlook and confident in your ability to deal with challenges.

tree at the desert

Confidence

I stand alone,

I stand tall,

I spread my branches,

I do not fall.

I have enough,

I live and thrive

In desert land

I make my life

Amongst the sand

I can survive

Where others fail

I will prevail.

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How To Manifest Your Desires With The Law of Inspired Action

spring trees

When it’s Spring the trees blossom…will you know when it’s your turn to blossom?

The Law of Inspired Action

Inspired action is when you have a gut feeling about something and you decide to act upon it. It’s a feeling of excitement or even nervousness about doing something a little different. It’s something that you know that you must do to manifest your desires.

Does This Clash With The Law Of Attraction?

With the law of attraction it often sounds as if you ask the universe for something and then you get it when the time is right. That could be a bit like hoping to win the lottery but never buying a ticket! It’s simple, follow your gut instincts, the universe will tell you when to act and what to do. You will have to take some action!

Follow Your Intuition

Luckily you can get in touch with your desires. You can be inspired, be creative and act as if you already have achieved your goals. These are great manifesting tools. Have enthusiasm. Perhaps your intuition is telling you to make space in your home for a new partner, or to go to college and train for that new career. These can be inspired actions – follow your whims.

Be Like A Tree

Trees live outdoors in all weathers and they can feel when the seasons are changing. We live indoors and this shields us from the changes in nature. We may miss the signs that action is needed when we are distracted by electronic devices, work agendas and the stresses of everyday life.

A tree knows when it is time to drop it’s leaves for the winter and to conserve energy. Trees can feel the onset of spring and produce new leaves and blossom. They attract pollinators and produce fruit. These things do not happen by inaction and endless waiting, the tree knows when to act.

Fortunately, you can manifest like a tree, make connecting with the earth a part of your routine. Take time in meditation to listen to your instincts. Speak your intentions and then act when you get the signal. This is the law of inspired inspiration.

Manifest your dreams, listen to your heart and act when your soul instructs you to.

low angle shot of papaya fruits on the tree

It’s good to know

There’s a season to grow,

There’s action,

Pollination,

Fruition

and Fall.

And a time to sleep

When you’ve done it all…..

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How to use the Law of Vibration to Achieve Happiness

woman in red shirt walking on forest

Have you ever noticed how trees can make you happy?

What is the law of vibration?

The law of vibration is one of the 12 universal laws. The good things in life that are positive vibrate at a higher level. Everything is energy and everything vibrates. We attract things that vibrate at the same level as we do. Therefore in order to be happy and successful we must vibrate at a higher level. The correct use of the law of vibration will make you happy!

How do I raise my vibration?

Sometimes it’s easy to be happy and optimistic. We can be surrounded by vibrant excited people who are infectiously happy. At other times we may be feeling a bit low and although we want to be happy it is harder to achieve. This is where trees are really important. According to Matthew Silverstone in his book, Blinded by Science, being around trees can improve ADHD, alleviate depression and cure headaches. That would be a good start to feeling better.

Trees can make you happy

It’s important to raise your vibration to achieve happiness and reach your goals. Being around trees can raise your vibration. Your vibration changes when you interact with trees. Being in nature can reset your mood. Try walking barefoot around a tree. Place your hands on the tree and try to understand how the tree exists.

Tree roots are connected underground so you may not even need to touch the tree to feel its vibration. The tree is all around you, encompassing you. It may be sighing or swaying in the breeze, the tree will give you a boost.

Sit on the ground near the trees and meditate and the tree energy will help you to regain your positive thoughts. You will feel refreshed and recharged.

Set your intentions

A visit to a wood or forest, a visit to a lone tree, any living tree will vibrate and help you to regain your positivity and improve your mood. Infused with tree energy you will be ready to reset your intentions and think of all the wonderful things you can do. You are ready for success and happiness.

Any time that you are feeling as if you have lost your way, take off your shoes if you can and connect with a tree. Notice how much happier you feel!

The higher your vibration, the higher your expectations.

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tree with reflection on body of water

My Tree

I feel you embrace me

Though far away.

Your energy saves me

I see you sway

And whisper so sweetly.

Your heartbeat beneath me

Your roots so deep

Stretch out to the world

Around me you creep

And flutter my heart

Whilst with you I sleep

And then wide awake

A hug and a kiss

Accomplish my dreams

With arboreal bliss.

 
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Dream about Escaping a Spider Web

This is my blog where I describe a dream, analyse the elements of the dream and then give a dream meaning.  Today's dream is very simple, the main element is a spiders web.

Our dreamer is in a room and starts to notice a spider's web starting to form around them. They are aware of other people in the room who are bothered by the spider's web. There is no spider visible and the web is getting thicker and thicker and starting to cling to the walls. Nobody seems to know where the web is coming from. The dreamer starts to become scared of the web too.

The dreamer becomes aware of a lady who says that she can help. The lady grabs the hand of the dreamer and leads them away. The street is also full of spider's web, people are running away and screaming because of the web.  The dreamer and the lady go to a new building and there is no web, but then the web starts to build in the new place too. What does this mean?

Dream Meaning

Spiders Web To dream about a spiders web has a few different meanings depending on the situation. Spider's use webs to catch their prey, so if you dream of being in a spider's web and you are not the spider, then you are in danger of becoming entangled in a difficult situation that may destroy you or at least tie you up for a while. we often talk about a web of lies and deceit, you may be caught up in some intrigue, someone may be telling lies about you.

If you see a beautiful spiders web and you are not in danger, you may be being asked to appreciate the small things in life. If you are scared of spiders, you may be being asked to reconsider your attitude to something.

Spider Dream  a spider dream is telling you to face your fears. To see a scary spider in a dream means that you need to confront the things that are bothering you and to stop running away or avoiding situations.

Building Dream Buildings are places where we shelter from the elements, they are designed to protect us from the weather and also from each other. The condition of the building in the dream and the type of building will give you a better idea of it's meaning.

A damaged building would mean that you are vulnerable to the elements and to attacks from others. a new building means that you are secure and protected. An old building that is in good condition means that you are protected by tradition. A tiny building means that you have just enough to get by.

What does this dream mean?

Our dreamer is surrounded by a web of lies and deceit and it is getting worse. The web is getting so thick and bad that it is effecting everyone else around the dreamer. A good lady tries to help the dreamer and leads them through the streets to a safer place. The problem is present wherever the dreamer goes, in the street and then it follows the dreamer to the new building. This dream is a warning to the dreamer, the only way that the dreamer can get out of a difficult and scary situation is to find the spider. In the dream, the spider is not visible it is hidden so the source of the lies and deceit is hidden. The dreamer has to find and confront the spider or else the problem will persist wherever they go.

Tarot Card Associated with this Dream

Moon

Rider Tarot Deck

I chose the moon as this weeks card because it reflects deception which is related to this dream.

The moon signifies a period of fluctuation

A Hidden agenda, a difficult situation

Dishonesty and danger, a false friend

Ulterior motives from one who pretends

Creative endeavours, hidden deceit,

Slander, deviousness, liar and cheat.

Inhibited and feminine, the inner mind,

A period of flux and feeling confined.

a card of change, illumination,

Having bad dreams, imagination.

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Please see list of dreams below.

Dream Interpretation List

Dreams about Transportation, cars, bikes, helicopters..

dream about riding a bike, unicycle or tricycle

Dream about driving a car

dream about a helicopter.

Dreaming about a drone

dream about a UFO

Dream about catching a plane

Dream about having someone on your back, dream about plane crash

Dream of a road

Dream meaning running away

Dream about moving backwards

Dream about Rocks

Dreams about clothes

Dream about shoes

Dreaming about a hotel and wearing white

dream about losing your purse or handbag

Dream meaning out of breath, lost luggage, bus

Dream of losing your purse, dream of making dough; dream of photographs

Dream about Losing your Clothes

Dream about being naked .

Dreams about family and people

Dream about family moving away  

dream about talking babies 

Dream about having someone on your back  

Dream of looking for your date

dream about a room mate and musicians!

Dreams about buildings and furniture, man-made things

Dream about a helicopter, broken legs and a closet

Dream about Dorm Room and Key

Dream about Cell Phone or Mobile Phone

Dream about car park, road and driving

Dream about Driving and object in road

Dream about being lost in a hotel

dream about a house 

 Dream about Painting   

 Dream meaning scaffolding

Dream about stealing dishes ;

dream about television ;

Dream Meaning: Room mate, furniture, musicians ;

Dream about cups, dream about two ;

Dream of a sink ;

Dreaming about floors ;

Dream of Photographs ;

Dream about a mirror

Dream about candlesticks,

dream about book shelves

Dream about a book 

Dream meaning Park Bench ;

Dreaming of cutting the grass, mowing the lawn ;

Dream about a Statue

dream about fairground

Dream about job interview and clothes

Dream about Statues and Graveyard

Dreams about situations

dream of being blind ;

Dream about ex-boyfriends mother

Dream about Blood ;

Dream meaning out of breath,

lost luggage, bus ;

Dream of searching for your seat,

dream of looking for your date

Dream about an interview

Dream about pie,

dream about explosion ;

Dream of losing your purse,

dream of making dough;

dream of photographs

Dreaming of numbers,

dreaming of income  

Dream about retirement, drag queens and pink hair

Dream about cups,

dream about two

Dreams about nature and wildlife

dream meaning birds

 Dreaming of Ducks and Water Birds

Dreaming about birds flying

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Dream about alligators, crocodiles or caiman

Dreaming of butterflies,

dreaming of flowers

Dream about rocks ;

Dreaming about Fire,  ;

Dreaming about Mud

Dream meaning cobwebs

Dream about wolves

Dream meaning vintage car, department store and swamp

Dream meaning spider, Web and Dog

Dream of a forest and a cradle

Dream about escaping a spider web


Dream about blood

What does my dream mean?

This is my dream interpretation blog where I describe a dream and interpret it.

In this weeks dream the dreamer is walking around barefoot and she steps on a pencil sharpener. The sharpener cuts into her big toe and she has to pull the blade out. She pulls the blade out and blood spurts everywhere, she grabs some paper towels and tries to stop the bleeding but it is too bad. Some of her co-workers are trying to help her and she speaks to her manager but he does not realise how serious the problem is.  She looks down at her toe and it is split in half.

Blood: represents vitality, life and hope, the thing that keeps us alive. Losing blood is a sign that life is flowing away. Menstrual blood is a sign of fertility for a woman but it all depends on the blood.

Walking Barefoot: This can be interpreted in many ways, it could be a symbol of not having money for shoes, or that you are connecting with mother earth, It can also signify changes in you professional life, if the walk was comfortable it will be easy to adapt if not the changes may be painful.

Pencil Sharpener: Pencils in a dreams can mean that a person needs to sharpen their life skills, but a pencil sharpener can also mean that it is time to write something. 

Toes: Toes help us to balance and walk, so a problem with toes may mean that it is difficult to create balance in life. An injured toe can mean that there is some damage done to property or your relationships.

Today's dream means that the dreamer is at work and there are many changes that put her off balance. She sees her life flowing away and feels injured, she seeks help but it is ineffective and she knows that she must leave to get out of this situation. She should consider becoming a writer.

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More Dream Interpretations

Dreams about Transportation, cars, bikes, helicopters..

dream about riding a bike, unicycle or tricycle

Dream about driving a car

dream about a helicopter.

Dreaming about a drone

dream about a UFO

Dream about catching a plane

Dream about having someone on your back, dream about plane crash

Dream of a road

Dream meaning running away

Dream about moving backwards

Dream about Rocks

Dreams about buildings and furniture, man-made things

Dreams about family and people

Dreams about clothes

Dreams about situations

Dreams about nature


Life's Journey's - Finding your inner Artist - Introduction


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This post is for those people, who want to be more creative in life but are not sure how to find an outlet for that creativity. There are so many ways of being creative and so many hobbies where we can exercise our creative muscles, which activities should we choose?  How do you select a creative outlet?

My random list of creative activities - writing and playing music, designing things, art of all types, creative writing, dance, psychic development, cake decorating, candle making. You may have tried some of these things at school, (probably not the psychic development unless you attended Hogwarts) I was lucky enough to have attended a less academic school where I was allowed to be creative and I believe that these creative skills have been valuable throughout my life, giving me the ability to switch off from the mundane and delve into the artistic universe.

This blog will explore some of the ways that you can delve into creativity, it is not about the skills that you develop although it is always nice to be good at something, it is the sheer joy of experimentation and producing something that is uniquely you. It is the lopsided cake, the smudgy art work, the clumsy dancing -who cares? If you enjoy it, keep doing it, feel good and escape from other people's standards and judgements. This is about you, your creativity, your projects, your self expression of what you are truly feeling inside - no imitations!

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Life's Journey's - Being Yourself

Much is written about "faking it", "being the best you can be", "putting on a show", "wearing a mask", it is really rather sad that we often feel that being ourselves is somehow inadequate. There are times when we need to "fake it", but this should not be something that we do the majority of the time, if you are in a situation where faking is normal then you probably need to move into something where you can be yourself.

Admit that you are not the best at everything, there is always someone better, smarter, cuter, more intelligent so learn to be happy in your own skin. Be who you are - I say this with the caveat that you must always be good to yourself and to others because that is the recipe for happiness. It's very simple, be good. For some reason being good has become confused with being dumb or naive - you can still be smart and do the right thing.

Getting back to my point about being yourself - appreciate who you are, your unique traits, your unique looks, your personal experiences, there is no-one else like you. Enjoy who you are, be amused at your failings, and thrilled by your successes -they are important to you. 

Whatever type of relationship you are in, be yourself, be honest especially if you are getting married - find out who you are and who your partner is -before it gets  complicated. Seriously - take things slowly, passion fizzles.

Below is a link to a poem I wrote about not being labelled, being who you are.

Enjoy!

 

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The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Kind Hair Conditioner

This is my blog about living kindly being kind to others, being kind to myself and kind to the environment. I do not always get things right, I am a work in progress but writing this blog helps and reminds me to continue my quest for kindness. Being kind makes me happy!

This week I went shopping at Lush, a new store opened in Mall at Millenia in Orlando so I went to check it out. I have been using Lush products for about the last 5 years. Since the beginning of this year my aim has been to drastically cut down on the number of products that I purchase in plastic containers. Lush has a range of products that are more or less packaging free.

I usually just rinse my hair with apple cider vinegar but I needed some hair conditioner to use after I henna my hair. I was delighted to find that lush has produced some solid hair conditioners that look like bars of soap -I purchased the coconut oil and sea salt bar. I hope that it will work for me. The reviews are mixed :)

Big Conditioner by Lush

Products without plastic!!  There are also solid deodorants, shower gel and shampoo with no plastic containers from Lush.

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The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Blueberry Picking

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, kind to the planet and kind to others. I do not always get everything right but I am a work in progress.

This is the beginning of blueberry season in Florida and we are fortunate enough to have some blueberry growers near to home. To make this even better, these blueberries are organic, which is really important if you are consuming soft fruits with no protective peel to save the fruit from contamination. 

It is great to support local growers and it is also enjoyable to spend some time outdoors. This grower, Blue Bayou Farm is located in Yalaha and also sells bootleg liquor, fruit and vegetables and homemade pies. I discovered that the best picking rows, were in the middle and the middle of the row. People usually start from the beginning or the end but rarely in the middle!

I picked several pounds of blueberries and put most of them in the freezer for use on breakfast cereal and smoothies. Perhaps I will even be adventurous and make a blueberry crumble! It's really good with ice cream or hot custard.

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Blue Bayou Farm

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The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Seeking Positive News

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, kind to the planet and kind to others. I do not always get everything right but I am a work in progress.

Since starting this blog, my change in perspective has made me so much happier, I am able to appreciate the small things in life and the big things, like freedom! We are constantly hearing about free speech, freedom to say what we like whether or not it hurts somebody else and it is easy to get caught up in this maelstrom from the media. I have been saddened when I see some of my facebook friends posting things that show they are hurting because of something that they read and took personally. I have been guilty of being a media junky, it is easy to do. The answer is to only read good news stories, because if something is going to effect you personally, there will be enough warning to alert you to any personal danger.

Facebook has been getting bad press recently and probably deservedly but if you have positive people on your news feed, you will have positive reinforcing messages to read every day and did we really think that our information was private and not sued for profit?! I am grateful for all the positive messages and I choose to ignore the nonsense and manipulation.  There are several positive news websites that only report good things. Here are some links:  Good News Network Positive News  Sunny Skyz

Remember, what you resist persists - block from your mind and thoughts all negativity and negative people, listen to stories and read about things that make you feel good and give you reasons to be cheerful. 99.9% of people are good -(not a scientific number) but a good reminder that there is a great deal of good out there and we should learn to trust each other.

Have a wonderful day, you create your reality.

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The Year of Living Kindly -Kind Woman Blog - The Upward and Downward Spiral

This is my blog about living kindly, being kinder to the planet to myself and to others. We have all heard of being in a downward spiral, or spiralling towards, defeat and this week felt a little bit like that. It was as if my old bad habits had resurfaced and taken control again and so I started to realise life is a spiral and the momentum can either be up or down.

When I started writing this blog, I was determined to be a better kinder person this year but this week I felt as though I was taking a vacation from kindness, and then laziness set in, and disappointment and frustration at how easy it is to let old habits resurface. Today, I have put the breaks on the downward spiral, it is a spiral of excuses, of not speaking up, of not offering 100% and of not helping people. It is a spiral of unhappiness that will grow and take root in your soul creating misery. Today, it stops, and the spiral rebounds, it climbs and it conquers, there is more effort in going uphill but the view is much better from the summit.

If I can turn this ship around, then you dear reader can do the same. Eliminate all those things that make you feel uncomfortable inside, be careful with your associations, if you belong to a group that is not doing the right thing, you do not have to join in. Be true to yourself and do better, the easy path downwards is the way to sadness and failure. Have the courage to be different to speak out and volunteer to do the right thing. Be supportive of others even if it makes you unpopular, because your harshest critic is yourself. You must please yourself everyone else in your life is temporary. You will live with yourself and die with yourself.

My advice, if you are on the downward spiral, stop, put the brakes on and be brave. It may be tough to find your way back initially but once you gain momentum you will be so happy that you made the decision to do better, to be better and to succeed.

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Asheville, NC

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The Year of Living Kindly -Kind Woman Blog - Natural Coir Doormat

This is my blog about living kindly, being kinder to the environment, to myself and to others. A couple of years ago I bought a doormat, it was a pretty design when it was new and I was pleased with it. One day I picked it up to beat it and it split in half, right down the middle, it has a plastic or rubber backing. I have been determined to buy a new doormat but this time I want one that will last. The stores are full of nice designs but they all have the same type of backing that will break. I love to support my local stores but again had to resort to an online search.

I found a natural coir woven doormat with no offensive backing and ordered it today.  I hope this solves the problem, wipes shoes, looks good and lasts a long time. I will have to wait and see...

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The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Plastic Free Kettle

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, kind to the planet and kind to others. This week my electric kettle stopped working, I was disappointed because I have only had it for a couple of years and as a true Brit I cannot survive for more than a few hours without a hot cuppa tea. Replacing the kettle was urgent and I started to look at different options, the idea of purchasing a plastic free kettle was new to me until I stumbled on a ceramic kettle on Amazon. I usually buy the cheapest option when purchasing household items but in the name of being kind to the planet I was prepared to pay a little more, I am happy that I did, the kettle looks good and feels nice in my hand. Bialetti Kettle no longer on Amazon but worth looking for elsewhere.

The kettle looks good, heats quickly and although it is slightly heavier than my previous plastic kettle it is still easy to pour.

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Dream Meaning - Dreaming about losing your purse or handbag

What does my dream mean?

This is my dream interpretation blog where I describe a dream, interpret the elements of the dream to come up with a dream meaning. Here is my dream interpretation blog, where I explore dream meanings. 

In today's dream our dreamer arrives home from a trip in a taxi, when she gets to the house she realises that she has left her purse in the taxi. She knows that she needs to retrieve the purse/handbag but she is so anxious to get home that she keeps forgetting about it.

Dream meaning losing your purse - a purse contains all of our important little things, not just money and credit cards, it may contain our make up, cell phone and keys. These are all things that we need to function in our lives. Generally losing a purse or handbag in a dream means that we have lost our identity.

Dream meaning - losing a credit card, this dream means losing your identity.

Dream meaning - losing your make up, this dream means that you are losing the mask of how you appear to the world. This can be positive, you have the confidence to show who you really are, or you may feel exposed by it.

Dream meaning - losing your money in a purse - you have lost your sense of independence.

Dream meaning -losing your keys this dream means that you have lost your way and cannot go back to where you were before, you may need assistance to return to your home or previous position or you may be happy to move on.

In today's dream our dreamer, has lost her handbag/purse and although she is concerned about it, she has other priorities. This lady knows that her identity is changing, perhaps she is deliberately changing, she has just come back from somewhere else. She has taken a taxi which means that she may not have friends in her environment. She feels that she can get her purse later, so her loss of identity is not the most important thing at this time, she is not so concerned about how she appears to others.

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Dream Interpretation List

Dreams about Transportation, cars, bikes, helicopters..

dream about riding a bike, unicycle or tricycle

Dream about driving a car

dream about a helicopter.

Dreaming about a drone

dream about a UFO

Dream about catching a plane

Dream about having someone on your back, dream about plane crash

Dream of a road

Dream meaning running away

Dream about moving backwards

Dream about Rocks

Dreams about clothes

Dream about shoes

Dreaming about a hotel and wearing white

dream about losing your purse or handbag

Dream meaning out of breath, lost luggage, bus

Dream of losing your purse, dream of making dough; dream of photographs

Dream about Losing your Clothes

Dream about being naked .

Dreams about family and people

Dream about family moving away  

dream about talking babies 

Dream about having someone on your back  

Dream of looking for your date

dream about a room mate and musicians!

Dreams about buildings and furniture, man-made things

Dream about a helicopter, broken legs and a closet

Dream about Dorm Room and Key

Dream about Cell Phone or Mobile Phone

Dream about car park, road and driving

Dream about Driving and object in road

Dream about being lost in a hotel

dream about a house 

 Dream about Painting   

 Dream meaning scaffolding

Dream about stealing dishes ;

dream about television ;

Dream Meaning: Room mate, furniture, musicians ;

Dream about cups, dream about two ;

Dream of a sink ;

Dreaming about floors ;

Dream of Photographs ;

Dream about a mirror

Dream about candlesticks,

dream about book shelves

Dream about a book 

Dream meaning Park Bench ;

Dreaming of cutting the grass, mowing the lawn ;

Dream about a Statue

dream about fairground

Dream about job interview and clothes

Dream about Statues and Graveyard

Dreams about situations

dream of being blind ;

Dream about ex-boyfriends mother

Dream about Blood ;

Dream meaning out of breath,

lost luggage, bus ;

Dream of searching for your seat,

dream of looking for your date

Dream about an interview

Dream about pie,

dream about explosion ;

Dream of losing your purse,

dream of making dough;

dream of photographs

Dreaming of numbers,

dreaming of income  

Dream about retirement, drag queens and pink hair

Dream about cups,

dream about two

Dreams about nature and wildlife

dream meaning birds

 Dreaming of Ducks and Water Birds

Dreaming about birds flying

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Dream about alligators, crocodiles or caiman

Dreaming of butterflies,

dreaming of flowers

Dream about rocks ;

Dreaming about Fire,  ;

Dreaming about Mud

Dream meaning cobwebs

Dream about wolves

Dream meaning vintage car, department store and swamp

Dream meaning spider, Web and Dog

Dream of a forest and a cradle

Dream about escaping a spider web


The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Eliminate Plastic Forks

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, kind to the planet and kind to others. The last few months I have been trying to cut down on my use of plastic, especially single use plastic. Yesterday I spent a happy day at Disney Springs and then I had lunch at Burger Fi in Windermere. However there was something that really bothered me and that was plastic forks!

I know that using plastic forks is not a huge issue in the scale of things but if you count polluting our seas and killing all the fish as a problem, which I do think is a problem, then this needs to be addressed now. Yesterday, I enjoyed a gluten free doughnut from Erin McKenna's Bakery,  it was a gorgeous, sweet sticky doughnut which I ate with a one-use plastic fork.

Later in the day I enjoyed a cruelty free burger, vegetarian, at Burger Fi, (you have to ask for no mayonnaise or cheese to ensure that nothing was tortured for your meal), my burger came in a lettuce sandwich, it was gorgeous but so mucky that I had to use a knife and fork. It would be good if these fast food chains used wooden utensils,(they used to be available to eat fries) or even real knives and forks, that would be the ultimate in re-cycling! Anyway I used a plastic knife and fork and disposed of them, it did not feel good.

Today, I went to Target to the camping section and purchased a couple of Sporks! There are from "Light my Fire" and I will carry them in my purse and use them multiple times, at least that is the plan! I wish they were metal but at least they are light. These Sporks are also available in a 4 pack from Amazon.

 

Next time, I will take a look at take out drink cups.

IMG_1150(1)Re-useable Spork!

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The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Positive Visualization

This is my blog about living kindly, being kinder to myself, kinder to the planet and kinder to others.

Today I am more positive, I am more excited, I am more focused, I have more time and I can achieve whatever I set out to do. The reason for this is simple, it is because I believe this. I have everything that I want. I know that whatever I focus on I will create. I have job security, I am good at my job and I am surrounded by positive people. I have a wonderful home in a great, quirky town, I spend quality time with my family. I enjoy being creative, I am fit and I love to dance.

I am going to retire to a cottage near the beach, where I will continue to help people, I enjoy my every day existence, the beauty of nature and the world's infinite possibilities. Life is good.

Why did I spend this time writing this? If you are reading this, then you should write your own list. If you are not sure that everything that I said is true, read "Napoleon Hill, 'Think and Grow Rich' " or watch it on Youtube. There are so many good resources to remind you on the infinite possibilities that are available to you. Youtube has many positive thinkers and the resources are free, you could also go to a local library and borrow the books or have the audio books in the car and lsiten on the way to work.

Positive visualisation, order your perfect future today!

I know that what I am saying is true because I can see it, hear it smell it and believe it!

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Dream Meaning - Dreaming about Wolves

What does my dream mean?

This is my dream interpretation blog, where I describe a dream and interpret each element to produce a dream meaning. Here is my dream interpretation blog, where I explore dream meanings. 

In today's dream, the dreamer has an appointment to go and learn how to make wolf noises. She goes to the lesson and finds that it is easy.

Dreaming about wolves, the interpretation will depend on your experience and feelings about wolves. Generally we see wolves a pack animals, loyal and protective to each other and wild and vocal. Wolves are family and community minded and protective, cooperating as a group.

Dream about seeing a lone wolf - this is a dream about independence and breaking away from the pack, your interactions with the wolf will tell you more about the meaning.

Dream about a pack of wolves - if the wolves were living in harmony, this is a sing that you will be living in a community where people look out for each other. If the wolves were fighting - you will face opposition from someone in your community.

Dream about wolves howling -this is a dream about expressing your true feelings and becoming part of the pack.

Dreaming about a mother wolf and her young - you will be feeling protective of those around you who are vulnerable.

Dream meaning -learning how to make wolf noises - this is a dream about being part of a group or learning how to communicate and assimilate with others.

In today's dream the dreamer found that making wolf noises was easy, although the dreamer had to learn how to be part of the group after a quick initiation she was ready. She will quickly learn what needs to be learned and assimilate without any issues.

 

 

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Dream Interpretation List

Dreams about Transportation, cars, bikes, helicopters..

dream about riding a bike, unicycle or tricycle

Dream about driving a car

dream about a helicopter.

Dreaming about a drone

dream about a UFO

Dream about catching a plane

Dream about having someone on your back, dream about plane crash

Dream of a road

Dream meaning running away

Dream about moving backwards

Dream about Rocks

Dreams about clothes

Dream about shoes

Dreaming about a hotel and wearing white

dream about losing your purse or handbag

Dream meaning out of breath, lost luggage, bus

Dream of losing your purse, dream of making dough; dream of photographs

Dream about Losing your Clothes

Dream about being naked .

Dreams about family and people

Dream about family moving away  

dream about talking babies 

Dream about having someone on your back  

Dream of looking for your date

dream about a room mate and musicians!

Dreams about buildings and furniture, man-made things

Dream about a helicopter, broken legs and a closet

Dream about Dorm Room and Key

Dream about Cell Phone or Mobile Phone

Dream about car park, road and driving

Dream about Driving and object in road

Dream about being lost in a hotel

dream about a house 

 Dream about Painting   

 Dream meaning scaffolding

Dream about stealing dishes ;

dream about television ;

Dream Meaning: Room mate, furniture, musicians ;

Dream about cups, dream about two ;

Dream of a sink ;

Dreaming about floors ;

Dream of Photographs ;

Dream about a mirror

Dream about candlesticks,

dream about book shelves

Dream about a book 

Dream meaning Park Bench ;

Dreaming of cutting the grass, mowing the lawn ;

Dream about a Statue

dream about fairground

Dream about job interview and clothes

Dream about Statues and Graveyard

Dreams about situations

dream of being blind ;

Dream about ex-boyfriends mother

Dream about Blood ;

Dream meaning out of breath,

lost luggage, bus ;

Dream of searching for your seat,

dream of looking for your date

Dream about an interview

Dream about pie,

dream about explosion ;

Dream of losing your purse,

dream of making dough;

dream of photographs

Dreaming of numbers,

dreaming of income  

Dream about retirement, drag queens and pink hair

Dream about cups,

dream about two

Dreams about nature and wildlife

dream meaning birds

 Dreaming of Ducks and Water Birds

Dreaming about birds flying

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Dream about alligators, crocodiles or caiman

Dreaming of butterflies,

dreaming of flowers

Dream about rocks ;

Dreaming about Fire,  ;

Dreaming about Mud

Dream meaning cobwebs

Dream about wolves

Dream meaning vintage car, department store and swamp

Dream meaning spider, Web and Dog

Dream of a forest and a cradle

Dream about escaping a spider web


The Year of Living Kindly - Kind Woman Blog - Plastic Free Toothpaste

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, to the planet and to others.  One of my goals for this year was to cut down on the amount of plastic that I use.

I found a plastic free toothpaste from Taylors Natural that is pretty good. I have the cinnamon flavor. It is only necessary to use a tiny pea sized amount so the small jar should last a long time.  It is a charcoal based paste so the sink definitely needs a wipe after use unless you clean your teeth in the shower. The flavor is not as fresh as toothpaste in a tube and it is less sweet but less sugar in toothpaste is a good thing. Remembering that using this product is saving many plastic tubes being created makes the small difference in flavor worthwhile.

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Dream Meaning - Dreaming about a UFO

What does my dream mean?

This is my dream interpretation blog, where I describe a dream and interpret each element to produce a dream meaning. Here is my dream interpretation blog, where I explore dream meanings. 

This is a continuation of the "Drone" dream, the dreamer has attacked and brought down the drone. It is at this point that she realises that the drone contains a small alien being. It is shaken up by her attention to it, she looks overhead and sees an alien craft land on the property and some people come out with stretchers. They are going to take the dreamer and her partner away by force. The alien people explain that they themselves had previously been abducted and it is better to go voluntarily. The people give them 30 minutes to get ready to be abducted they will never be able to return home. The dreamer and her partner spend time trying to decide whether to tell their families that they will be gone for good and wondering what to say.

Dreaming meaning aliens: dreams about aliens are all about being in strange situations where you feel that you do not belong.

Dreaming about being an alien is a sign that you do not fit into your surroundings. You feel out of place or alienated. Perhaps you are living in a foreign country or working in an environment where you feel out of place.

Dreaming about being abducted by aliens is a fear of losing your home or family. You are being taken away from those you love and care about. This can also happen when you marry into a different family or you move house.

Dreaming about people who have become assimilated with aliens -this dream tells you that however strange some people are it is possible to assimilate into an alien group in time. People can join other groups and become confident and comfortable with them and not want to return to life outside of that group. This can be clubs, work groups, family groups or people from other lands.

In today's dream the dreamer, who lives away from people catches an alien on her property. The alien brings in reinforcements in an alien craft. This is telling the dreamer that you are never isolated even if you have space around you, you will interact with others and everyone is connected in a community of some sort. In the dream the dreamer is given the choice to join the aliens and other humans by force or willingly. She decides to join them willingly but then feels really worried about leaving her family behind. The dream is telling her that she has no choice but to join in the new community and it is better to do so willingly, she is losing one family but gaining a new one. The other humans who are in this alien family have settled in and are happy.

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Dreams about Transportation, cars, bikes, helicopters..

dream about riding a bike, unicycle or tricycle

Dream about driving a car

dream about a helicopter.

Dreaming about a drone

dream about a UFO

Dream about catching a plane

Dream about having someone on your back, dream about plane crash

Dream of a road

Dream meaning running away

Dream about moving backwards

Dream about Rocks

Dreams about clothes

Dream about shoes

Dreaming about a hotel and wearing white

dream about losing your purse or handbag

Dream meaning out of breath, lost luggage, bus

Dream of losing your purse, dream of making dough; dream of photographs

Dream about Losing your Clothes

Dream about being naked .

Dreams about family and people

Dream about family moving away  

dream about talking babies 

Dream about having someone on your back  

Dream of looking for your date

dream about a room mate and musicians!

Dreams about buildings and furniture, man-made things

Dream about a helicopter, broken legs and a closet

Dream about Dorm Room and Key

Dream about Cell Phone or Mobile Phone

Dream about car park, road and driving

Dream about Driving and object in road

Dream about being lost in a hotel

dream about a house 

 Dream about Painting   

 Dream meaning scaffolding

Dream about stealing dishes ;

dream about television ;

Dream Meaning: Room mate, furniture, musicians ;

Dream about cups, dream about two ;

Dream of a sink ;

Dreaming about floors ;

Dream of Photographs ;

Dream about a mirror

Dream about candlesticks,

dream about book shelves

Dream about a book 

Dream meaning Park Bench ;

Dreaming of cutting the grass, mowing the lawn ;

Dream about a Statue

dream about fairground

Dream about job interview and clothes

Dream about Statues and Graveyard

Dreams about situations

dream of being blind ;

Dream about ex-boyfriends mother

Dream about Blood ;

Dream meaning out of breath,

lost luggage, bus ;

Dream of searching for your seat,

dream of looking for your date

Dream about an interview

Dream about pie,

dream about explosion ;

Dream of losing your purse,

dream of making dough;

dream of photographs

Dreaming of numbers,

dreaming of income  

Dream about retirement, drag queens and pink hair

Dream about cups,

dream about two

Dreams about nature and wildlife

dream meaning birds

 Dreaming of Ducks and Water Birds

Dreaming about birds flying

Dreaming about birds 1

Dream about alligators, crocodiles or caiman

Dreaming of butterflies,

dreaming of flowers

Dream about rocks ;

Dreaming about Fire,  ;

Dreaming about Mud

Dream meaning cobwebs

Dream about wolves

Dream meaning vintage car, department store and swamp

Dream meaning spider, Web and Dog

Dream of a forest and a cradle

Dream about escaping a spider web


The Year of Living Kindly -Kind Woman Blog - Choosing a Plastic Free Juicer

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, to the planet and to others.  One of my goals for this year was to cut down on the amount of plastic that I use. I usually purchase fruit juice in a plastic bottle, I have looked for glass bottles but those juices are very costly. Living in Florida we have plenty of fresh citrus fruits so I decided to purchase a juicer.

I researched different juicers, I wanted a manual juicer and no plastic. There are many juicers out there and having read the reviews, I decided on a large juicer from "Gourmia". It is large and strong and should last me a lifetime. I have had to change my philosophy from the "throwaway" attitude that I previously held.

I ordered the juicer from Amazon Prime and I am excited!

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The Year of Living Kindly -Kind Woman Blog - Compost Benefits

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, to the planet and to others. Today, I am writing about compost, this is one of the benefits of recycling. I bought a composter at Home Depot about a year ago and since then I have been composting my fruit, vegetable and tea bag waste. Here is my list of benefits of composting.

  1. Nutrient rich soil - no need to buy potting soil when planting.
  2. Less waste -fewer trips to the trash can - fewer days to put the garbage can onto the street. Less waste at the landfill.
  3. New plants - tomatoes, peppers, avocados, pineapples, red cabbage, onions and lettuce. I have had plants from all of these from my compost. Actually, I did not put the pineapples in the compost first, I just planted the tops.

I highly recommend composting, keep a pot in the kitchen to put in all of the kitchen waste and then take it out to the composter once a day. Add a few leaves to the compost and turn each time you add something.

 

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Dream Meaning - Dreaming about a Helicopter

What does my dream mean?

This is my dream interpretation blog, where I describe a dream and interpret each element to produce a dream meaning. Here is my dream interpretation blog, where I explore dream meanings. 

In today's dream, the dreamer is walking in the neighbourhood, near her home and she sees a helicopter fall out of the sky and crash in front of her.

Helicopter's can have many different dream interpretations based on the type of helicopter and how the dreamer interacted with it.

Dreaming of a private helicopter - is a symbol of ambition and of having lofty dreams, hoping that your ideas will "take off". Helicopters take off and rise quickly so your idea may or may not be realistic. 

Dreaming of a military helicopter - if you work with these helicopters then this is a work related dream. If you are traveling in a military helicopter you are possibly moving into unknown or dangerous territory and you are not in control of your destiny.

If a military helicopter is hovering over you in your dream, then you are either being rescued from a dangerous situation or you are in grave danger and need to take actions to ensure your survival. You must interpret this based on your emotions during the dream.

If you saw a news helicopter in your dream then you are in the spotlight and events are happening around you that you may not be able to control.

If you were chased by a police helicopter in your dream, you need to change your current path or there will be serious consequences.

If you saw a helicopter take off in your dream, then your ambitions are likely to be rewarded, especially if you were on board the helicopter.

If you see a helicopter land in your dream, then your lofty ideas are being brought back down to earth and you will need to make a more realistic plan.

To dream of being rescued by a helicopter, this is a fortunate dream, telling you that although your situation looks bad, there are people out there who will help and support you. You will be given an opportunity to start again.

If you saw a helicopter crash in your dream then all of your lofty ideas are about to go up in flames, very suddenly. It is time to take a more realistic view of your future plans and aspirations.

In today's dream the dreamer saw the helicopter crash in her neighbourhood. Dreaming about your neighbourhood is usually a dream about social interactions, it is where your friends live and you spend time being sociable. The helicopter represents dreams and aspirations and the neighbourhood means the area of friendships. This dream is telling the dreamer that her dreams about her social life and interactions are about to be destroyed. She does not cause the problem herself, she is just getting on with her walk or life, but everything falls apart around her very suddenly.

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Dream Interpretation List

Dreams about Transportation, cars, bikes, helicopters..

dream about riding a bike, unicycle or tricycle

Dream about driving a car

dream about a helicopter.

Dreaming about a drone

dream about a UFO

Dream about catching a plane

Dream about having someone on your back, dream about plane crash

Dream of a road

Dream meaning running away

Dream about moving backwards

Dream about Rocks

Dreams about clothes

Dream about shoes

Dreaming about a hotel and wearing white

dream about losing your purse or handbag

Dream meaning out of breath, lost luggage, bus

Dream of losing your purse, dream of making dough; dream of photographs

Dream about Losing your Clothes

Dream about being naked .

Dreams about family and people

Dream about family moving away  

dream about talking babies 

Dream about having someone on your back  

Dream of looking for your date

dream about a room mate and musicians!

Dreams about buildings and furniture, man-made things

Dream about a helicopter, broken legs and a closet

Dream about Dorm Room and Key

Dream about Cell Phone or Mobile Phone

Dream about car park, road and driving

Dream about Driving and object in road

Dream about being lost in a hotel

dream about a house 

 Dream about Painting   

 Dream meaning scaffolding

Dream about stealing dishes ;

dream about television ;

Dream Meaning: Room mate, furniture, musicians ;

Dream about cups, dream about two ;

Dream of a sink ;

Dreaming about floors ;

Dream of Photographs ;

Dream about a mirror

Dream about candlesticks,

dream about book shelves

Dream about a book 

Dream meaning Park Bench ;

Dreaming of cutting the grass, mowing the lawn ;

Dream about a Statue

dream about fairground

Dream about job interview and clothes

Dream about Statues and Graveyard

Dreams about situations

dream of being blind ;

Dream about ex-boyfriends mother

Dream about Blood ;

Dream meaning out of breath,

lost luggage, bus ;

Dream of searching for your seat,

dream of looking for your date

Dream about an interview

Dream about pie,

dream about explosion ;

Dream of losing your purse,

dream of making dough;

dream of photographs

Dreaming of numbers,

dreaming of income  

Dream about retirement, drag queens and pink hair

Dream about cups,

dream about two

Dreams about nature and wildlife

dream meaning birds

 Dreaming of Ducks and Water Birds

Dreaming about birds flying

Dreaming about birds 1

Dream about alligators, crocodiles or caiman

Dreaming of butterflies,

dreaming of flowers

Dream about rocks ;

Dreaming about Fire,  ;

Dreaming about Mud

Dream meaning cobwebs

Dream about wolves

Dream meaning vintage car, department store and swamp

Dream meaning spider, Web and Dog

Dream of a forest and a cradle

Dream about escaping a spider web

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The Year of Living Kindly -Kind Woman Blog - Plastic Packaging

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, kind to the planet and kind to others. Life is a journey and I do not always get it right!

One of my goals in my "year of living kindly' was to be more eco aware and to cut down on the amount of plastic packaging that I use and also incidentally on the number of plastic products that I purchase. We all know by now that the oceans are filling up with plastic, plastic does not bio degrade or it takes 1000 years to break down so our plastic use is not sustainable.

Step one is to use re-useable bags when shopping, I am at about 50% on this one. I wish that the US had a law that makes shops charge for plastic bags like the one in the UK, I know everyone would be more motivated to bring bags along. When I first moved over here there were paper bags at the checkout but everyone preferred plastic, so the stores stopped using paper. Please bring them back!

Step two - look around the home and see which products are packaged in plastic, next time you go shopping, try to buy the products in non plastic containers. I am currently working on this, this week I needed toothpaste, I like natural fluoride free products but there are no toothpastes in my local stores that are not in plastic tubes. I visited one of my favourite websites: My Plastic Free Life for ideas and decided to look online. I found a couple of options on Amazon and ordered Taylors Tooth Powder , it is made from charcoal so I will see if it works for me.

I also needed some dish soap and after researching found that baking soda and vinegar are supposed to work well, baking soda comes in a nice cardboard box but the vinegar I have is in a huge plastic bottle, so next time I will hunt for a glass one. I tried using this yesterday and it seemed to clean well.

Laundry soap - I decided to try something natural and opted for Eco Nuts Soap, I have to wait for this to be delivered but I will update you on how well if works. The Eco Nuts are natural berries that produce soap, you place them in a bag in the washing machine and voila you have soap!

I hope my purchases this week, will work well and become a habit saving the earth from many more plastic bottles and tubes. We can change what manufacturers produce and sell by voting with our dollars and supporting smaller businesses that do care about the environment. If we choose natural packaging with minimal printing, recycled paper, burlap sacks, recycled card or tins, we are making a start. If we choose products that are more natural we are saving our bodies from an onslaught of toxic chemicals.

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The Year of Living Kindly -Kind Woman Blog - Competitive Women

This is my blog about living kindly, being kind to myself, kind to the planet and kind to others. Life is a journey and I do not always get it right.

I have noticed that when I hang out with other women who are supposedly my friends they sometimes make really catty remarks. In the past I would have brooded on this for a while and probably bitched about them behind their backs. In my year of being kind, I have decided to take a new approach.

Women see other women as competition, perhaps it is hard wired in our brains from some ancient ancestry, women competing for men, for food, for attention. We have all learned how to flirt, dress up and flutter our eyelashes but at a certain point we have to be much more than this. We need to be strong, self sufficient and intelligent to be successful today.

When a woman sees another woman as successful she usually reacts in one of three ways, she is happy to be around a successful person, she tries to copy the successful person or she competes with them. I recently found happiness by making changes in my life and accepting who I am, I complain less and I feel more confident. I have noticed that some women around me have become competitive, by trying to belittle that things that I do and bolster their own importance. 

These women may say random things to make themselves feel better, such as quoting their college GPA, their higher education, the make of their car or their successes at work while demeaning the things that you have achieved, All of the former things are acceptable if the conversation is about education, cars or work but it is weird when you are discussing something else. 

How do we cope with these competitive women who make us feel bad?  Realize that they are feeling jealous of you so the best thing you can do is say "thank you'. You may not say it aloud but you should be thankful for all the success and happiness that you have. The other ladies still need to do some work so that they will feel better about themselves. We are all different with different skills and different interests let's celebrate our diversity and enjoy each others company. We cannot change others we can only change the way that we react to competition so let's all be friends and say 'thank you" and appreciate each other.

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Living with an Addict - How to Avoid Becoming an Enabler

 

A recent study quoted in USA Today from the Surgeon General estimated that 1 in 7 people in the US will be suffering from some sort of substance addiction. There are many other types of addiction gambling, sexual addiction and compulsive lying. With this is mind many people who are not addicts themselves will be living with or interacting with an addict. When the addict is a loved one we want to do everything that we can to help them.

Loving an addict can often turn the unsuspecting into an "enabler". If someone we care about is in trouble, needs money or is in danger of losing their job or career, an enabler will go out of their way to protect the addict. It is a natural instinct to protect those that we love. You may be the child of an addict suffering from physical or verbal abuse, afraid to ask your friends to meet your parent, you may be the spouse of an addict fooling yourself into thinking that the sober person who wakes up with you in the morning loves you enough to quit their habit.

As an enabler, you give money to the addict, make excuses for their behaviour, lie to your friends and family and sometimes isolate yourself. You may feel guilty about the addiction and blame yourself for their behaviour and you sacrifice yourself to make them happy.

STOP! Stop enabling, stop giving them money, let them lose their job, let them be embarrassed, let them clean up their own mess. You may think you are being kind by helping them but you are in reality exacerbating the problem and allowing it to go on for longer. The addict may never seek help but if you are enabling the behavior then their addiction becomes acceptable and they are less likely to seek professional assistance.

How do you stop being an enabler? The important thing is to set some rules, ask yourself what you will or will not do for the addict.

Here are some potential rules, it is up to you to decide which ones would work for you.

  1. The addict cleans up their own mess.
  2. You tape or record the addicts worst behaviour to show them later on, this is not a good idea if they are violent.
  3. You avoid conflict with the addict when they are under the influence.
  4. You avoid contact with the addict at times when you know they are exhibiting unsociable behaviour.
  5. If the addict misses work they must call in themselves.
  6. You continue to live your life and socialise with your friends and family even if the addict does not approve.
  7. The addict pays for their own addiction, they do not need money from you.
  8. If the addict asks for professional help, you encourage them to follow through with it.

Remember the best way to be kind to an addict is to not to be too kind.  Do not sacrifice yourself and your own happiness for an addict because you will make their behaviour worse. If you love an addict you will help them to help themselves by doing less for them.

If you need the help of a life coach email me at: [email protected], we can discuss rates and how I may help you.

College Advisor: I have worked in education for many years teaching business and information studies and advising students on which college program to take and which university to attend. I have helped hundreds of students with college applications. If you need a life coach to help you with anything related to education, please email me at [email protected] I can help you to set goals and give you the benefit of my experience.

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Functioning Not Thriving - How to Recover from a Loss

In life there are many times when things do not go to plan and sometimes we are left feeling sad and unhappy but we still carry on as if everything is fine.  We think we are coping but in reality we are just functioning. There are many behaviours that we exhibit when we are in this state, I have listed a few below.

  1. Self medicating - taking prescription or non-prescription drugs to make ourselves feel better.
  2. Drinking - not necessarily excessive drinking but often daily drinking to help us to relax, sleep or forget.
  3. Inappropriate relationships -getting involved with people who are unavailable emotionally or already married.
  4. Job hopping - changing jobs often, sometimes voluntarily and sometimes not.
  5. Careless personal hygiene.
  6. Watching hours of TV, playing video games excessively causing neglect of other duties.
  7. Gambling that has a negative impact on the quality of life.
  8. Poor eating habits, eating quantities of unhealthy foods, such as bingeing on chocolate.
  9. Finances - poor money management.

I know this is a long list of problems but they can all be experienced after the loss of a loved one, the break up of a relationship, loneliness, isolation or bankruptcy to name a few situations.

If you are exhibiting these behaviours you may feel fine and you may be functioning but somewhere inside there is a person inside you who is hurting. If your goal is to feel better, it is necessary to find a way to gain back control of yourself so that you will feel better. You may not realise that something is wrong but you know that you can do better.

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Life is a labyrinth of roads, some dark and some light. The light roads are the best.

How do you regain control of yourself and your life?

Replace your negative behaviours one by one, with something else. Sometimes it can take a while to be able to do this. It is said that if you get a divorce after 10 years of marriage it will take 5 years to recover, This is a long time but I can say from personal experience that there is some truth in this.

Here is my list of replacement behaviours that will make you feel better.

  1. Sing whenever you can.
  2. Dance -take dance lessons if you need them.
  3. Learn a new skill such as to play an instrument.
  4. Take up art, painting or pottery are good ones to start with.
  5. Take up some form of exercise -yoga is great for mind and body.
  6. Go back to school to learn a new skill or train for a new career.
  7. Take as many vacations as possible.
  8. Learn to cook some new healthy recipes.
  9. Replace the alcohol with some other beverage that is less harmful.
  10. Join a club where you can meet other people with similar interests and ideas.
  11. Find a time each week to work on a budget and savings plan.
  12. Find a life coach to keep you motivated and to pursue your new tasks and goals.

Change may happen slowly but with determination it is possible to turn the situation around and thrive once more.

To discuss how I may help you, please email me at [email protected], Pauline Courchene, Life Coach.

College Advisor: I have worked in education for many years teaching business and information studies and advising students on which college program to take and which university to attend. I have helped hundreds of students with college applications. If you need a life coach to help you with anything related to education, please email me at [email protected] I can help you to set goals and give you the benefit of my experience.

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